Are you dating an abuser

She was bullied at school about her “wonky eye” and, as a result, became very introverted and shy and was still very self conscious even after her operation, which was a great success (she now has no sign of a squint).

Ten years later she met “the man of her dreams”, a sensitive, caring, attentive man, who showered her with love and devotion.

Take your time when dating someone new and watch out for the warning signs, Jealousy comes in many fashions and is sometimes one of the first signs that you are dating an abuser.

Of course it’s nice to have a man’s attention and to hear him say that he’s so into you he just doesn’t want anyone else to be able to take you from him.

When they cheat on you, shout at you, treat you badly, damage your property, or embarrass you in public - it's somehow your fault.

Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, and domestic violence are on the rise, especially among young people.

The risk of falling into an abusive relationship is greater than ever.

However, it’s not OK for him to freak out if you happen to glance in the general direction of where another man is standing.

Or be jealous when you spend an evening with your friends or kids or parents.