As of tomorrow, we'll have been living together for two and a half years.And the crazy thing is, we marvel that it continues to get better with each passing month.They see these women as experienced and knowledgeable in the bedroom -- as if they have mysterious tricks up their sleeves.Don't forget, as teen boys, usually their fantasies were that of models, movies stars and centerfolds -- many of which were older women. Dating a younger man also makes the woman feel that she has more control of the relationship.I was hoping for someone to have great sex with, to join on dates and take a vacation with a couple of times a year.Even when Stephen and I first got together, I assumed it would be temporary.
Not being able to get what you want is, however, what an older friend of mine (yes, I once dated him) thinks about dating women his own age: they’ll want to get into a ring-house-car-kids scenario immediately.
One thing that works in our favor is that I wanted a younger man (although I was thinking more like 48) and he prefers older women (he pursued me and knew how old I was, because he first set eyes on me at my 60th birthday party at the tennis club where he worked as a trainer).
It turns out that one-sixth of women in their 50s prefer men in their 40s. I knew I wanted a younger man, but only as a playmate.
In truth, with age does come experience and a certain sense of power. They are still enjoying the variations of different women.
She can feel comfortable in setting the rules and doesn't need to feel like she is not in control of the situation. If commitment is something you may be looking for, you might want to opt for an older man. Communication is still not at its optimum peak in a younger man.