To start a text conversation with a girl, send her a short open-ended question to get things going, then shift the conversation toward something timely or significant to her.
Keep the conversation lighthearted, and take cues from her to determine whether to keep going or let it end.
You, or your partner, can always disconnect at will.
Girl: I'm not a cop i told you Boy: Then send me your picture. Boy: When really you were notifying the authorities.
Boy: I thought you were trying to find a picture to send to me. Girl: I don't want to send you the picture cause I'm not pretty Boy: Most cops aren't Girl: IM NOT A ****ING COP YOU DICKHEAD!
But what if the prospect of starting a conversation leaves you feeling weaker at the knees than a jellyfish on stilts? But the fact remains that when you're relaxed and confident, you'll transmit that comfort to the person(s) with whom you're communicating.
Fear, especially unnecessary fear, blocks opportunity. If you've always tended to wait until new people start chatting to you, then it may feel overwhelming to reverse that habit. Well, often they fear saying the 'wrong thing', but what does that mean?